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Carollee Lockwood

Reply vs. Reply All: The Email Etiquette You Didn’t Know You Needed

It’s 2024, and while many of us have mastered the art of email, there seems to be some confusion when it comes to two very basic buttons: Reply and Reply All. It’s surprising how often this comes up, but here we are. So, let’s break it down for anyone who may still be unsure.


Let’s break it down:

  • Reply – This is when you respond only to the person who sent you the email. That’s it. Just the one person. If you don’t need to share your response with anyone else on the thread, this is the one to go for. Crazy, right?

  • Reply All – This is when you respond to everyone who received the email. Yes, everyone. If your message is important for everyone to see—like updates, questions, or feedback that affects the whole group—then Reply All is your friend. But if your message is just for the sender’s eyes, please, for the sake of inbox sanity, use Reply.


Here's why it's important:

This isn’t just about convenience; it’s about being considerate of everyone’s time. When you hit Reply All by mistake, you’re filling up everyone’s inbox with something that’s only relevant to you and the sender. On the flip side, if you hit Reply when you should have chosen Reply All, you leave the group in the dark, which can lead to confusion or extra follow-up messages. Neither option is a win.


The Impact:

  • Reply All Gone Wrong: This is when you respond only to the person who sent you the email. Yes, just the one person. If the email was meant for only one person, you don't need to invite the entire company into your response.

  • Reply Gone Wrong: This is when you respond to everyone who received the email. Everyone. Including that one person who doesn't even work with you anymore but somehow is still on the email thread. Everyone. This is especially useful if you’re actually contributing something that everyone needs to see. But, and this is important, if your response is something that only benefits the sender (like confirming an appointment time), please stick to “Reply,” and don’t bless the entire group with your message.

  • Studies show that the use of "Reply All" in emails can significantly impact productivity and stress levels among employees. For instance, the average worker spends about 28% of their workweek on emails, and frequent email overload, including unnecessary "Reply All" responses, is linked to higher stress and decreased productivity. One study found that time spent on email—especially when it involves redundant communication like "Reply All"—often contributes to workers feeling overwhelmed. This email overload can reduce productivity, as employees are distracted by managing excess messages rather than focusing on their core tasks. (1)


In a nutshell:

It’s a simple but important distinction. Taking a moment to consider whether your response needs to go to the whole group or just the original sender can save everyone some time and keep inboxes from overflowing. So, next time you’re about to reply, just take a second to ask yourself: Who needs to see this?


And for those still figuring it out: Catch up, because you're driving the rest of us bonkers!


 

(1) EmailAnalytics. "51 Productivity Statistics to Improve Your Team's Performance." EmailAnalytics, n.d., https://emailanalytics.com/51-productivity-statistics-to-improve-your-teams-performance/.

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